Workshop and Training Offerings:

Over the last 10 years I’ve taught in many different spaces around topics including kink, sex work, polyamory/ ENM, and sexual health and trauma. Currently I facilitate education in multiple spaces and modalities including face to face, video, and VR. I love creating workshops for communities and therapists; joining the exploration of the clinical with the erotic and sensual; skill building for the professional and the client.

As a whole, our cultural framework struggles with having direct, expansive and complex conversations around sexuality, especially the shadows of our sexual lives. I’m your counterbalance; pushing the most difficult conversations about sex, gender, fetish expression, digital eroticism and sex tech into our cultural expression. Sexuality (especially on the internet) is never going away, so we must create a pathway for critical consumption of the content, education around what you (and children/teens) are observing, and translating digital content into practical understanding for IRL relationships, love and sex.

Workshop Topics

  • This workshop explores the intersection of kink, BDSM, and trauma healing, examining how consensual power exchange and embodied erotic practices can support nervous system regulation, reclaim agency, and facilitate integration of traumatic experiences.

  • This workshop examines non-monogamy through the lens of liberatory ethics, exploring how consensual multi-partner relationship structures challenge dominant cultural narratives around the nuclear family, ownership, jealousy, and relational normativity.

  • This workshop examines the intersection of sexual trauma and sexual empowerment, exploring how intentional engagement with pleasure, desire, and erotic identity can support survivors in reclaiming agency and restoring a felt sense of safety in the body.

  • This workshop explores the concept of the "erotic edge", the threshold where desire, discomfort, and growth intersect. The erotic edge can be the site of profound psychological and sexual self-discovery. Drawing on erotic and emotional boundaries with curiosity rather than avoidance can expand capacity for intimacy, vulnerability, and authentic self-expression.

  • This workshop examines the rapidly evolving landscape of sexual technology as tools for pleasure, connection, and identity exploration. Soleils depth of knowledge in this area offers critical insights into how sextech is reshaping the boundaries of erotic expression, relational engagement, and embodied experience, while critically examining questions of ethics, consent, accessibility, and digital safety from a sex work perspective.

  • This workshop offers a critically informed exploration of pornography consumption through the lens of ethics, consent, and personal values. It examines the frameworks for evaluating pornographic content with attention to sex worker rights, industry labor practices, and the distinction between exploitative and ethically produced media. Drawing on sex-positive, social justice and sex-working perspectives this workshop offers a nuance take.

  • This workshop examines the unique challenges faced by sex and gender expansive individuals as they navigate medical, legal, mental health, educational, and social systems that were largely designed without them in mind.

  • This workshop provides mental health clinicians with a comprehensive framework for delivering affirming, culturally responsive care to sex and gender expansive clients. Participants will examine the ways in which mental health systems have historically pathologized gender and sexual diversity, and explore how to actively counter that dark legacy through trauma-informed, identity-affirming clinical practice.

  • This workshop invites mental health clinicians to critically examine the colonial roots of Western therapeutic frameworks and their ongoing impact on clients from marginalized communities. Drawing on liberation psychology and anti-oppressive practice frameworks, this workshop examines what it means to actively decolonize your practice, clinical theory, assessment, and intervention.

  • This workshop provides mental health clinicians, advocates, and allied professionals with a nuanced, destigmatizing framework for engaging with sex workers as both clients and colleagues. Drawing on harm reduction principles, sex worker-led advocacy, and trauma-informed practice, attendees will leave with practical tools for providing affirming, non-judgmental care to sex worker clients, as well as a deeper understanding of how to foster equitable, respectful collaboration with sex worker colleagues and consultants in professional contexts.

  • This workshop equips parents, caregivers, and educators with evidence-based frameworks for initiating and sustaining meaningful conversations with adolescents about pornography. The workshop offers concrete language, age-appropriate strategies, and a trauma-informed approach to guiding teens toward critical media literacy and healthy sexual development while decrease shame, panic, and avoidance.

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